“Sister Wives” star Meri Brown took to Instagram Stories to post a quote about being “shamed” and “rejected” amid Kody Brown drama.
“Be the person who breaks the cycle,” Meri shared on Wednesday. “If you were judged, choose understanding. If you were rejected, choose acceptance. If you were shamed, choose compassion.”
“Be the person you needed when you were hurting, not the person who hurt you,” she added. “Vow to be better than what broke you — to heal instead of becoming bitter, so you can act from your heart, not your pain.”
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The LuLaRoe Fashion Retailer shared this message after Kody refused to get intimate with Meri. During an interview last week, Kody said, “There’s a point where intimacy is just damaged. It’s misleading to have intimacy in a relationship where there is no real safety, I’m not going there.”
Krishnan, who hosted the interview asked, “You’re telling me that you don’t feel safe with Meri?” He replied, “No, and I never will again. I will be her friend, I will do what I can to protect her. I will build a house for her out on Coyote pass, but I’m never going to feel safe in an intimate place.”
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What do you think about Meri and Kody’s relationship? Should she also move on and leave Kody as Christine Brown did? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section. For more updates on “Sister Wives,” keep checking this space.
9 thoughts on “‘Sister Wives’: Meri Brown Writes About Being ‘Shamed’ & ‘Rejected’ Amid Kody Drama”
Surely, I could not be the only who who sees “The King of the Castle” talking crudely/rudley to both Christine AND Meri. It would not surprise me to read he has done the same with Janelle. When I first began to watch and it did take sometime before I started; I thought it was a stupid show that would bore the heck out of me. I finally decided to watch; believe me it was slow going. The more I watched, the more angry I became. What an Ego! What a narcissist! I wonder how proud mommy and daddy would be. I too was wondering why there wasn’t more commardie and more Christian action towards another?Where is the love? No church/bible study. Does he have God in his life; there are no prayers, the train has derailed. Is this how he was raised? It’s maddening! He’s such an unknowledgable man. Makes me wonder if he is the only one being paid since the other woman work at home businesses. Gabriel and his brother are just really nice and respectful towards Jenelle. It was sad watching him begging his father for love and attention. Newborns and adult children always need love from their parents. The guy NEVER says ” I LOVE YOU ” to anyone. Adults and children. He pats the kids on the head, even the youngest ones…To not be with his daughter when she had spine surgery is unforgivable. There was no excuse (even in this pandemic). She will never forget that he wasn’t there when she needed him….One last thought is, as much time he is away from the wives and kids; is anyone sure he’s not bearing more kids and secretly taking more wives?
Meri needs to do what’s in her heart!!
Aside from being narcissistic, I think Kody is emotionally and verbally abusive. He has absolutely no right to demonize and shun Meri when he moved on sexually from her over ten years ago. YEARS before he drove her to be catfished. That he has been gaslighting Meri for that ever since. He takes absolutely no ownership of his behavior for the demise of his first marriage. What woman with half a brain would want to be married to a man/cad that dogs his real life with other women he has litters of children with? I think if these women were deprogrammed from this cult invented 160-ish years ago in America, they might have a chance of a real happiness.
I think Meri should do what she feels is best for her. As viewers, we see what TLC chooses to show us. We are not privy to everything that has happened in the past, nor do we know what goes on inside everyone’s minds. Meri is a smart woman, and has two successful businesses. This whole COVID pandemic and quaranting has caused much pain, death, fear, and confusion for everyone, and it is difficult to determine just what is right, all the way around. All I can say is I pray for blessings for Meri, for relief from the humiliating comments made by Kody, and for strength and happiness to enjoy her life in whatever way she chooses.
I would absolutely leave, however Meri loves him. ( for what reason idk) I think she should move on.
It appears that the way they have chosen to live is now not working. Maybe it worked when they had small kids at home and Kody was younger. Also when the family was living close together. Kody needs to admit he was not cut out to be husband to 4 woman. The way I see it their lives are very unhealthy and unhappy. Back when their parents ( ones that came from this situation) raised them it was different than how they are doing it.The man worked hard outside the house or farmed. The kids was raised together as one family and lived in same home probably added on to many times. Women prepared meals together, canned garden vegetables and sewed their clothes. They didn’t have a lot of spare time during the day to travel or run around like these wives do. It just got to modernized and they lost the real meaning of plural marriage. When we first meet them they had gathers in the living room and had Bible study . What happened to that part ? Now they are worldly and self centered.
She should move on. Kody is not even close to being the kind, compassionate or spiritual companion she married so many years ago. That Kody could have and would have chosen forgiveness. He is on the road to a monogamous marriage with Robyn and really makes no apologies for it. Meri has lost nothing and is free to gain much more than what she has with him. Meri, seek out someone you deserve who deserves you. Kody is no prize to sit in misery and wait for.
I think if all Kody wants is to be Meri’s friend and not have an intimate husband/wife relationship then she should definitely move on and also get a spiritual divorce!
Actually, they (Kody & Meri) didn’t have any kind of recommitment or spiritual wedding ceremony that I remember after they divorced.
So Meri doesn’t even have to do anything legally or spiritually – she only needs to tell him to kick some rocks!!
He should be eternally grateful to Meri for her generosity in divorcing him so he could marry Robyn and adopt those kids!
In fact, in my opinion- Kody is not even close to being good enough for any of the three wives, Meri, Janelle and Christine!
He’s also a deadbeat dad in my opinion, on all levels…. emotionally, physically and monetarily!
I’m guessing he’s not contributing to any of their household income, I could be wrong!
I know Meri has been on her own financially for years. Janelle was definitely a hard worker and contributed her income big time in the beginning!
Christine was the only stay at home mom and that was to all of the wives children combined!
So I think Meri should meet someone who will give her the love and relationship that Kody admits he no longer wants with her!
Meri should have left kody when Robyn came into the family